RELATIONSHIP; FWB
Relationships come in various forms including platonic friendships, intimate/romantic relationships, family relationships, business relationships, religious relationships, fraternities, etc.
Whatever the relationship, there definitely must be benefits attached. However, the idea of two people exploiting each other in the guise of FWB is a thing of concern.
Why waste your time with someone you don't want to have any commitments to when you can conveniently commit to him/her or someone else? Probably because you don't want to stay alone or you are still hurting from your previous relationship... if you need to clear your doubts, you should take some time off of dating and figure out things rather than bobo-ing/April_Fool-ing yourself.
Never start a relationship because you don't want to be alone and never end it because you've found someone else. Do your best to resolve differences between you and your partner.
Be willing to invest in a relationship by committing to it that would help in sustaining it. I believe that all human relationships should be symbiotic,built on utmost respect and void of rules but boundaries should be created and limits set. It is disheartening when ladies rely entirely on the men they are dating for financial provisions... Some parents even encourage this Indirectly with questions as "your boyfriend no give you money for...this and that?" is he oweing you?? In fact the only difference between such girls and 'women of easy-virtues' (commercial sex workers) is that most of the later are doing it due to some unfortunate circumstances. You better get busy and acquire stuff for yourself rather than depending solely on a man or looking for a made-man to marry you. Although men should appreciate their ladies and assist them.
Nurture your relationship and let it grow. Don't deceive or console yourself with FWB... all relationships must have benefits.
Whatever the relationship, there definitely must be benefits attached. However, the idea of two people exploiting each other in the guise of FWB is a thing of concern.
Why waste your time with someone you don't want to have any commitments to when you can conveniently commit to him/her or someone else? Probably because you don't want to stay alone or you are still hurting from your previous relationship... if you need to clear your doubts, you should take some time off of dating and figure out things rather than bobo-ing/April_Fool-ing yourself.
Never start a relationship because you don't want to be alone and never end it because you've found someone else. Do your best to resolve differences between you and your partner.
Be willing to invest in a relationship by committing to it that would help in sustaining it. I believe that all human relationships should be symbiotic,built on utmost respect and void of rules but boundaries should be created and limits set. It is disheartening when ladies rely entirely on the men they are dating for financial provisions... Some parents even encourage this Indirectly with questions as "your boyfriend no give you money for...this and that?" is he oweing you?? In fact the only difference between such girls and 'women of easy-virtues' (commercial sex workers) is that most of the later are doing it due to some unfortunate circumstances. You better get busy and acquire stuff for yourself rather than depending solely on a man or looking for a made-man to marry you. Although men should appreciate their ladies and assist them.
Nurture your relationship and let it grow. Don't deceive or console yourself with FWB... all relationships must have benefits.
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